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Thursday, September 11, 2025

A letter to my ex ( i sent this months ago) , late may of 2025

 For my boy, 


!!!READ THIS TROUGH , PLEASE!!!



THIS IS NOT A BREAKUP LETTER! THIS IS JUST MY FEELINGS , I AM SO SORRY FOR MY FEELINGS , BUT I CAN NOT HELP 

MY FEELINGS AND THOUGHTS.

(please do not yell at me)



I am sorry that I haven t been myself for sometime now , but I ve been thinking . About someting deep...

I faced with going against my morals , or my relationship. And I need to decide , before I can t anymore. 


I always have and will believe you , your side of the case.I never doubted you for a second. But how can I explain it ?

When I cant even explain it to myself. I often ask myself if I am crazy for going against my morals , because I know 

you did not do it , but the courts/papers say otherwise. And thats what people believe... 


Thats why I have been a bit more silent lately. (besides the fact that my chest feels like it exploded).


I DO NOT WANT IT TO BE EVER OVER BETWEEN YOU AND I , I feel something I ve never felt with anyone in my life before, 

something unexplainable , like I am drawn to you , I do not know why . I feel safe , I can be vulnerable with you,

i feel protected , and loves a bit , or maybe I am just a dumbass for loving. 

Seriously I do not know why I feel for you , 

how is it even possible for me to love someone like you... Someone who got 3 years... for ca, something i myself hate

more than anything. 


You are probably wondering why I have to choose between you or my morals , but the thing is that I might have to say 

goodbye to half of my career if I wish to stay with you. And this is not an easy choice for me .I already gave up going

to the states , because no way they would let you in, and i wish to be with you, wherever life takes me. I HONESTLY WISH 

you would have killed another man , rather than those ca charges.

I mean look, imagine if you were a parent , would you ever take your child to a doctor who s husband had a charge of ca? 

Wouldn t you think that she might've agreed with what her husband did... 

And no , this will be known, this will rise to the surface one day, because nowadays they check pediatic docs like

hell to make sure that they aren t p***s, or anything bad . I mean it do be reasonable asf. 

I honestly feel that it is pointless to only do adult medicine , if i study so much , than why not complete it? 

I would lose half of my dream , and I want to complete both residencies. 


But if i lose you , than I lose what i ve always been craving, a loving man...You are not perfect , however

And there is nothing, noone that can replace you to me. Only you can be you, and I never want to lose you. 

You are incredably precious, and you mean much to me. 

I need you , I need you, I need you; your care , company , presence , support ,  humor , being , existence, protection , 

stability, trust , emotions, power, control, worht , confidence , etc...


I don t ever wanna lose you , i just need time, to fight with my thoughts a bit. 


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